Is It Time?

        Sometimes I feel we truly can't see when its time to move on. We live in our own personal reality of "maybe". Were blind to see what others see and we feel as if because there not in our shoes "they don't know". Well In my own personal opinion you don't know. It's the ones around who see it first because were not as emotionally attached. For example Relationships... Most girls or guys can't see when a relationship is over, they think "maybe it's time", but don't actually act on it. Maybe you wont end it because your scared or because you think this other person is the best your going to get. So I guess i'm asking you to look in the mirror and truly think about what moving on can do. How if you actually took this step and moved on you have the chance to find someone else you have the chance to create a new page in the book you call your story.

When every night your fighting and wanting to rip each others eyes out, it's time. I'm sorry if you feel that you love the person it's worth sticking around for, but if you truly loved them then you wouldn't fight every 5 seconds. you can cry and scream saying "you gave your other everything", but in truth everything might not always be the best. everything holds you back because when you give your spouse that last piece of yourself not out of love but out of fear that your going to loose them. Then you really didn't give them everything, you gave them control and fear. I'm not saying every fight means it's over, i'm simply saying that if that's all you do and all your relationship has become is one BIG fight then it's over.